Lots of Fish in the Sea: Finding the Right Person in a School Full of People

Couples are everywhere, especially around campus. It’s easy to spot them wherever you go; eating in the cafeteria, hanging out in the student center or even talking in between classes. But how did they find each other and become the couple that you see doing all these couple things? It can be hard meeting new people, especially people who you’re interested in dating. But there are ways to make meeting people easier.

1. Go to school events. One of the easiest ways to meet like-minded people is by going to Union College’s events. This gives you a chance to see people outside of classes and get to know them better. They also provide a more relaxed environment and remove the formal environment of the classroom.

2. Hang out in public spaces around campus. Areas such as the Student Center or the cafeteria where most students pass through increase your chances of encountering students that you want to get to know better. Take your homework and work on it in one of these public areas, or grab a friend and do your homework together.

3. Spend time with your friends. You and your friends don’t know all of the same people. If you spend time in groups with them, it will likely expand your circle of friends and may provide opportunities to become closer with potential dates.

4. Take up some hobbies. Union College has many activities that students can participate in. Basketball, volleyball and intramural sports are just a few examples. Getting involved in these activities can grow your circle of friends and may help you find the person you are looking for!

5. Get out of your comfort zone. You know what I’m talking about here. It’s Saturday night and all you want to do is curl up and watch a movie, but your friends are all getting together to do something fun. Go with them! There will be plenty of time to spend watching movies with that special someone when you find them. Until then, enjoy your life and make the most of it with your friends!

Dating in college can be difficult and finding the right partner is a constant and difficult struggle in most young people’s lives. Regardless of what you decide to do, remember to make it fun and not put too much stress on yourself. Sometimes we find the best people in our lives when we least expect it.

Kaitlynn Toay is a Senior

English Major from

Edgeley, North Dakota