Valentine's Variations
The Global Citizen
Since Valentine’s Day is a holiday celebrated across the globe, it is easy to assume that most Valentine’s Day traditions are pretty similar. Americans are familiar with classic romantic Valentine’s Day traditions like arranging a nice dinner, delivering flowers, buying chocolates and giving Valentine gifts, etc., but some people might be surprised to learn about unique and alternative traditions from around the globe in celebration of this day. A little variety to spice things up would be a nice change of pace and would keep things a bit more interesting than what one might consider a generic gift or an uncreative gesture.
For example, Denmark may take the cake when it comes to beating around the bush. Instead of sending straightforward letters or notes, the Danish send funny poems or riddles to those they are trying to catch the attention of. They give clues or hints in code to let the person know and if they do manage to figure it out, the fun continues through Easter when the sender owes the receiver an Easter egg. The egg part may be a little extra, but the riddles and code would make handing out Valentine’s cards a little more exciting!
In comparison to the U.S, Japan has an interesting Valentine tradition–one might even consider it as being a little backward. On February 14, it is generally the women who buy chocolates or make treats for the men. This is not just a romantic gesture, but often extends to male coworkers as well. The tradition can become so expensive or stressful that some workplaces have banned the practice altogether, but most women will still do it for those close to them. Don’t worry girls, a month later on March 14 men return the favor on a Japanese holiday called White Day.
In South Africa, women will literally pin the name of their lover, crush or partner on their sleeve. In the Philippines, the local government hosts mass weddings for those who may not be able to afford it and last year, over 500 couples got married at once by a single mayor. In Wales, people give each other handcrafted wooden spoons, and in El Salvador, people treat it as almost like the secret Santa exchange in the States.
With Valentine’s Day approaching, more people are becoming increasingly aware of the importance of appreciating the people in their lives. Whether they are family, friends or significant others, people are not alone. It is always important to consider loved ones throughout the year, but Valentine’s Day is a day set aside specifically for love not just in the States, but around the world. Remember to acknowledge those who have made an impression on the heart. Maybe this year is the year to change it up and adopt a new tradition!
Wesley Rodriguez-Diep is a senior studying international relations.