How to Maintain Strong Personal Connections During a Pandemic
While social distancing affects how much we may see others in person, it does not have to completely ruin your social life. Interpersonal relationships are some of the most important connections we have in our lives. Whether it is keeping up with friends or your significant other, there are so many ways to maintain connections.
Be open with each other
Opening up can be difficult, but talking about how much you mean to each other can help solidify the bond you share. Be open about how you’re feeling and how you’re holding up during the extra time alone with the added burdens you may be carrying. Check in and provide a shoulder to lean on if your partner or friend needs one.
Set Zoom dates
At this point, we all know that Zoom is the go-to way to connect and socialize while social distancing. Set up Zoom dates so you can still see each other face-to-face. These activities are also convenient, as you do not need to leave your house to attend!
Plan for the future
I don’t mean planning your wedding, unless you’re ready for that step. Simply planning activities that you and your partner would like to do after the pandemic has safely passed will help you both look forward to brighter days. Make a list of all the activities you would like to do. They can be as small as going out to eat or as big as traveling to Europe. They are your plans; think big!
Participate in COVID-19 friendly activities
Though we are all told to social distance as much as possible, we still need socialization once in a while. Participating in coronavirus safe activities with your partner or friend is a good way to socialize safely. Safe activities would include places where you are outside and/or wearing a mask while not in close contact with many other people. Ultimately you and your partner have to decide what risks you will take during this pandemic, but keep safety in mind.
Though the COVID-19 pandemic has been present for almost a year, many are still trying to adjust to the major changes it has made in our lives. Having a circle of friends or a significant other to help lift your spirits and encourage a healthy mentality is helpful in dealing with the effects of the pandemic. Pandemic or not, it is important to invest time and energy into any relationship you want to last.
Kaitlynn Toay is a senior
English major from
Edgeley, N.D.