Relationships and Responsibilities: Finding Time in Your Schedule for Your Relationship
As the middle of the semester is rapidly approaching, many students find themselves overwhelmed with the amount of work to be done. Between school, homework and jobs, there’s a lot to juggle. Dating during a busy time in your life can be complicated. Too much space and your partner might feel left out or forgotten. But there are simple ways to help close the gap and bring you closer together, even during the busy times.
Send a sweet “I’m thinking of you” text.
Chances are that your partner crosses your mind multiple times a day. You may think of them when you’re getting ready in the morning, or when you’re getting your favorite coffee drink. Sending them a quick text when they cross your mind lets them know you care and that you’re thinking about them, even if you’re bogged down with responsibilities.
Set aside some time to be together.
Choose a date night once a week where you both put away your other responsibilities, turn off your phones and focus on each other. Try to keep your mind on your partner and not on the list of things you need to do. Being present with them will continue to create a strong bond, even if you’re spending less time together than normal.
Be open to making changes if your partner expresses concerns.
Your partner may feel sad and frustrated with your busy schedule, regardless of your intentions to create time and space for them in your life. Having an open conversation about this can help. Ask them what they need and try to rework a plan going forward. Sometimes it’s as simple as showing love in a way that they readily receive.
Dating is complicated. In our current society, we’re all so busy that making time for a relationship can be a struggle. Setting aside time for your partner and prioritizing them can help them know how much you care while you navigate this busy part of your life. Remaining open and honest with each other can help close the space created by busy schedules and bring you closer together. As always, open communication and honesty are what drive a relationship forward, especially in times like this!
Kaitlynn Toay is a senior
English major from
Edgeley, N.D.