Dating During a Pandemic

Mask wearing and social distancing have become social norms in recent months, and these precautions can create problems in complicated parts of our everyday lives. For instance, dating is hard enough without standing six feet apart at all times or being unable to read the lower half of your date’s face. Below are a few ideas to help you safely navigate the altered world of dating during a pandemic.

1. Take it outside.

The risk of coronavirus transmission is lower when outside exposed to the fresh air. That means date ideas such as walks, picnics, or even grabbing lunch at a restaurant with outdoor seating would be perfect choices to get to know each other better.

2. Use Zoom and other forms of digital face-to-face interaction.

It’s hard to get to know someone without seeing their face, especially when so much of our human communication is through our facial expressions. Though masks may make the task of getting to know someone significantly harder, using tools such as Zoom or FaceTime can help. Setting up video chat dates can help you get to know the person behind the mask and allow you both to safely communicate. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but give it some time.

3. Find your comfort level.

Everyone has a slightly different idea of what social distancing means. When it comes to meeting face to face, communicate with your date about what social distancing looks like to them and respect their boundaries. Both parties should be comfortable with any plans that are made.

4. Be respectful.

Though canceling a date can suggest that you are no longer interested, it may be necessary under some circumstances. If you are experiencing any symptoms of the coronavirus, rescheduling the date is the best option for both of you. Reiterate that you are thinking of their safety and reschedule for sometime after your 14-day quarantine period is over.

Though the already complicated world of dating has undergone major changes in recent months, remember that dating is supposed to be fun! It’s about finding a person who you connect with and could see a future with. If you care enough about each other to manage dating during the coronavirus, then you may be well on your way to building a future together. The goal is to stay safe, be respectful and have fun!

Kaitlynn Toay is a Senior

English Major from

Edgeley, North Dakota